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The most perfect Chanukah Party of all.

It was finally here – our annual family Chanukah party! After numerous community events and parties, tonight would be just me, my husband and our kids. The sound of latkes sizzling on the stove combined with the sight of pretty matching plates and tablecloths was the perfect combination. The mason jars labeled with the adorable stickers, each filled with another donut topping, stood in a neat row. Chanukah themed edible place cards with each kid’s name on it were propped right near their placemats. It was picture perfect.

And then I woke up.

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I had to make it to the graduation!

I missed my daughter’s graduation. 

I had it all planned out just right; I wouldn’t miss it for the world.

High school had been a ride full of surprises, including meeting many principals and teachers; some who connected better than others and some who understood teens better than others. But we had made it, both my daughter and I. We survived high school; her for the first time, me for the second. 

And I had to be at the graduation. 

Even more so because she was graduating from the same school I did; there was something incredibly special about that.

The11:30pm flight right after shabbos would get me to NY with a few hours to spare before the 1pm graduation, or so I thought. I grabbed my bags right after havdala and scrambled to the car to get to the airport on time.

Sailing through security with TSAPre, I arrived at the gate with time to make myself comfortable and finish some other things on my to do list.

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He’s toilet trained!

My son is toilet trained! 

No, that doesn’t do justice.

My son is toilet trained!!!!!

MY SON IS TOILET TRAINED!!!!

This may be my tenth child that I’ve toilet trained, but that doesn’t diminish the joy and exhilaration. I want to shout it from the roof tops – I succeeded at toilet training!!

Hands down, this strong willed four year old was the hardest one yet. Yes, you read that right. Four year old. If I was a first time mom, I would have assumed I was just a failure of a mother who just couldn’t get it right. Being the tenth time around, I KNEW that I had it in me. I knew I had what it takes, even when I felt that I didn’t.

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I wonder what the neighbors think

I can’t help but wonder what my neighbors think is going on in my backyard. They hear things like, “No, don’t do that! It’s dangerous!” Or “Stop, someone is going to get hurt, that’s dangerous!” Or sometimes the very short variation of ”That’s dangerous, stop now!!”

Are they wondering what type of explosives or machinery I’m hiding behind my wood plank fence, that makes everythings so dangerous?!. Do they wonder if things are safe on my side of the divider? Who knows. Maybe they even peek through the slats of the fence when I am not looking to see what is going on. After all, my kids love to stick their little noses through the fence and ask the neighbors what they’re doing, while they are just trying to enjoy their life of retirement.

Truthfully, I have an inkling of what they do think…

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Mom Review: What they don’t tell you about Magna-Tiles

“Magtile!” Screams my almost two year old.

“Magna-tiles!!” Shouts my three year old.

“Where are the rest?” Chimes in my 5 year old.

And I know my game is over; it’s time to pull them out of the garage, where I had them so nicely hidden. And I can’t help but wonder how the stray one showed up in the kitchen.

Because the truth is, I hate magna-tiles.

There, I said it.

Magna-tiles drive me crazy.

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