Category: Life in General

It’s amazing how you don’t notice how much stuff you have until you have to pack every last tiny bit of that stuff into a cardboard box.

And then suddenly you realize you are drowning in stuff.

Not just Stuff.

But STUFF.

An endless amount of it.

Somehow, the more you pack, the more you have left.

“It’s just impossible!” I proclaimed to my husband many times during the packing week.“We are just not going to be able to do this. We have too much stuff!

He would calmly remind me, “How do you eat an elephant?”

My answer is always the same; “You don’t!”

Nope, wrong answer.

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Everything that there is to learn about mindset, resilience and perseverance I learnt today at Costco, while trying to put in contact lenses. Granted, there’s so many life lessons going on at Costco in general; like the power of the human mind that can convince you that you urgently need a kayak when really you came to buy toilet paper. But today I’m referring only to the optical department, and the experience of trying to put in contact lenses for the very first time.

It was something I never thought much about until my teenage daughter got contacts 2 years ago; I started wondering why I was still wearing glasses. I was ready to change things up a bit and this was a good and simple solution.

So here I was at Costco for my 11am appointment. 

“How long should I give?” I casually asked the helpful contact-lense-coach.

“We will give it up to an hour,” was her equally casual reply.

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Here’s the thing about systems – they don’t actually solve the problem. They don’t make the challenge go away. They do make you feel in control and they do make it easier to put into words what’s not working. But the system itself isn’t magic. It’s the people keeping (or not keeping) that system that hold the keys to success. 

That brings me to the Sock Crisis.

In this house of many children there are many, many socks. Many many boys’ socks. Way back when boy number four was born, I felt I needed a sock system, and quickly.

I had one girl at the time, so that made her system simple. One girl, one bin. Done. For my boys, I needed a new route.

Before making a system, I had to establish a policy. And the policy was: only solid colors. Life is too short to spend so much of your time trying to pair up small dots and big dots and wide stripes and medium stripes without making mistakes.

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It was finally here – our annual family Chanukah party! After numerous community events and parties, tonight would be just me, my husband and our kids. The sound of latkes sizzling on the stove combined with the sight of pretty matching plates and tablecloths was the perfect combination. The mason jars labeled with the adorable stickers, each filled with another donut topping, stood in a neat row. Chanukah themed edible place cards with each kid’s name on it were propped right near their placemats. It was picture perfect.

And then I woke up.

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I missed my daughter’s graduation. 

I had it all planned out just right; I wouldn’t miss it for the world.

High school had been a ride full of surprises, including meeting many principals and teachers; some who connected better than others and some who understood teens better than others. But we had made it, both my daughter and I. We survived high school; her for the first time, me for the second. 

And I had to be at the graduation. 

Even more so because she was graduating from the same school I did; there was something incredibly special about that.

The11:30pm flight right after shabbos would get me to NY with a few hours to spare before the 1pm graduation, or so I thought. I grabbed my bags right after havdala and scrambled to the car to get to the airport on time.

Sailing through security with TSAPre, I arrived at the gate with time to make myself comfortable and finish some other things on my to do list.

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